Fresh over fake?

Raising 3daughters I wonder what the future holds... Me being me I often think about my laid back personality has on them, my comfort over fitting in, or my own fashion sense??? My odd ways and oddity lifestyle... I know I'd rather raise 3 daughters to be comfy, fresh and happy than made up bimbos who lack any self esteem and feel the need to be false... How much influence do I have as a mum over the influence of friends/tv/peer-pressure and advertisement? How do I protect the innocence of my children and keep them safe from a power driven world where how you look is more important than how we treat people? And my 3boys??? How do I raise them to be strong but compassionate men over bully's and thugs when it's celebrated more and accepted more to be the hard faced boy who doesn't care about his family/friends/love??? How do you raise 3 boys to show its ok to be upset and show emotion... To care about the people and things you love... It scares me... It scares me what lies ahead as I have no control over the people they meet or the media influence and I hope that the silly talks we have instead of stern rules to rebel against will set them up for life... The talks about wearing what you want instead of picking what your friends wear, or being the only boy in a dance class makes you stronger than the rest, it scares me that these little miracles we have made so perfectly will be hurt in life... My only comfort  is I'm here for them to help them through the bad times and celebrate the amazing... Cause they on there own are amazing...